Do you have to be happy all the time?
WHAT a strange blog topic I hear you say? I know, but life isn't perfect, no one has a good life every second of the day, every day, it simply doesn't happen. SO how do we cope with disappointment and disaster? And why are so many people taking anti-depressants for general anxiety when they aren't actually depressed? WHEN we experience a trauma in our lives, we are bound to become upset, reclusive, anxious, all the signs that we are not happy. This is normal, if you didn't feel bad, I'd be worrying! YOU can feel sad, you can cry, you may lose your apetite for a short while, but these things will pass with time, you don't necessarily need to go to see the doctor the moment you feel sad, give yourself time to deal with the situation, the grief, the aftermath of whatever it is, live in that moment because it's a situation that we will learn from, that information will be stored to protect us in the future. OF course, if this goes on for months, or longer, then ...