Patience and positivity pay off.


EACH week I wonder what topic I may pick for my little blog.

SOMETIMES it's easy because of life events or thoughts that happen in the week, and this week it was easy.

ONE of the things I always say to people is to be positive, the more positive you are, the more positive things happen to you. If you want something enough, focus on it and it should be yours!

FOR example, the parking pixie, I may have written about this before, but whenever I go to park the van somewhere, even in a full carpark, I usually find a space, so my Mum nicknamed me the 'Parking pixie!' Nothing special in that, except that I really want a space, I focus on it, and it happens. If I was to go into that carpark saying to myself and out loud, 'we are never going to find a space' we probably wouldn't. Negativity doesn't pay off, at any point in your life.

THIS week, we have been waiting to hear about adopting a rescue spaniel. I saw photos of him, convinced my husband that he would be a great addition to the household, put in an adoption form, had a home check, threw every last piece of my positivity at it and we have just been told that we can adopt him! I knew that we would be the right home for him and the charity agreed.

BEING positive works in just about every aspect of life, and yes, it's hard to see the bright side, the best outcome sometimes, but if you don't try, if you aren't positive and you don't work hard for things that you really want, then maybe you don't deserve them anyway? You have to put the effort in to get results.

WHAT are you feeling positive about at the moment? Are you a positive winner?!


 

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