Don't fear change.


 CHANGE is always going to be part of life, it's inevitable, and yet a lot of us fear it.

IN spring the buds grow, in summer the flowers bloom, in autumn the leaves fall and in winter, well it's just cold isn't it? But things are still going on underground, nature is constantly evolving, and it doesn't worry about it, so why do we?

MY guess is that we are lazy, why live with change if we can keep on the way we are? We are unambitious, not dedicated to living the best life that we can, but we are also living in fear of things going wrong, and that fear can take over leading us to sit comfortably without moving on in our lives.

WE need to start acting like nature, we need to start living our lives, be brave, be ambitious, be challenged, otherwise what is the point of us being here at all?

LIVING safety in our little comfort zones isn't going towards making the next big discovery that could change everyone's lives, settling for what we have isn't going to make us rich, fantastic, talented, it's just living, existing for no good reason.

STEP out of your comfort zone and live!

CHANGE is good, take a risk, and if it doesn't pay off, at least you have tried. I would rather regret doing something that didn't work out, than regret not taking that chance. I have in the past been afraid of change, and I realised that it just wasn't making me happy sitting comfortably, and I wasn't happy either, just safe. Safe is okay for a while, but it doesn't get results, it doesn't move you on in life, and that's when you start living properly.

USE your life to it's fullest, CHANGE your life, CHANGE the way you think and do things to add value to your life and that of others. 

MAKE just one change for the positive this week, I challenge you.

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